Stalking Mary: One Man's Fifteen-Year Obsession With His High-School Teacher is the story of Ming Sen Shiue (shoo) who spent more than a decade obsessing about and secretly stalking his high school algebra teacher, Mary Stauffer. His obsession culminated in the kidnapping of Mary, along with her eight-year-old daughter Beth, in the spring of 1980.
Shiue held Mary and Beth captive in his home for seven weeks, imagining the three of them to be a family, while videotaping his nightly assaults on Mary . Eventually, Shiue let his guard down and Mary and Beth were able to escape. Shiue was later tried for and convicted of the abductions and sentenced to federal prison for the crime.
In the spring of 2010 Ming Shiue became eligible for yearly parole hearings. The District Attorney for Anoka County, where Shiue murdered six-year-old Jason Wilkman wanted to ensure that he never went free.
In April 2010 Shiue was tried in District Court as a sexual predator.
In September 2010 Judge Jennifer Walker Jasper ruled that Ming Sen Shiue is a sexual psychopath and a sexually dangerous person.
She declared that Ming Shiue met criteria for civil commitment and decreed that when or IF he is ever paroled from the United States Federal Correctional System, Federal Marshalls will be ordered to transport him, under guard, to the Maximum Security Hospital for Sexual Psychopathic Treatment Center in Moose Lake, Minnesota where he will remain indefinitely.
The object of his obsession Mary Stauffer and her husband spent many years as Baptist missionaries in the Philippines. They are now retired and living in the United States. Beth is married, has a beautiful family and remains close to her parents and her brother Steve.
The abductions of Mary and Beth Stauffer and Jason Wilkman took place in the spring of 1980, just two miles from our home in New Brighton. The crime resonated with my husband and me because, like the Stauffers and the Wilkmans, we were a young couple raising two small children. The thought of someone abducting a mother and daughter and a second child - so close to where we lived was unnerving to say the least.
Our two children, Joey 10 and Bridget 6 even attended Valentine Hills School-the same elementary school as Beth Stauffer.
Weeks went by with no word about the victims. The whole community was on high alert that summer-concerned that a pedophile might be lurking in our neighborhood. Parents stood guard to make sure their child got on the school bus in the morning, and met the bus again in the afternoon. As summer wore on with no sign of the Stauffers or Jason Wilkman, parents made their children stay close to home. Rarely would you see children in a park without an adult standing nearby. It never occurred to us that the target for the Stauffer and Wilkman abductions was 39 year-old Mary Stauffer.
Later that summer when Mary and Beth escaped, and the truly bizarre nature of the crime was revealed, everyone who read about the case was horrified.
Like most people, I followed the case with interest and when Ming Sen Shiue was sentenced to 30 years in prison, I felt justice had been done. I went on with my life and didn't give the case another thought-until years later.
Beginning in 1994, when I returned to college to pursue a degree in psychology and later when I went for my masters in counseling psychology, I would find myself wondering about the peculiar circumstances of the abductions of Mary and Beth Stauffer and Jason Wilkman. I was always curious about the psychological profile of Ming Sen Shiue, and thought, in passing, that someday I'd look that up.
Shortly after I retired in February 2008, I began to look up the records of the crime and I became captivated by the story. During my investigation, I found Shiue on the Federal Bureau of Prison's Offender Locator site and was appalled to learn that he is scheduled for release in July 2010.
I wrote the story with the focus of understanding Shiue's mental illness, his current diagnosis and examining the diagnoses made in 1980-from an historical perspective.
I have 11 three-ring binders of documents detailing this crime, the investigations and the trials. Those documents include:
Retired Ramsey County Sheriffs Investigator Marie Ballard - who, with her partner, Walt Fowler drove the squad car that picked up Mary & Beth from Shiue's on the day they escaped
Retired Ramsey County Sheriff's Investigator Jim Daly - who drove Mary and Beth to St. Paul Ramsey Hospital after they were interviewed at the Sheriff's Office.
Retired Ramsey County Sheriff's Investigator Bruce Jerome - who worked in the Ramsey County jail while Shiue was held there and foiled an escape attempt by Shiue
Don Johnson, Chief Deputy Ramsey County Sheriff in 1980
Ron Meshbesher, Shiue's defense attorney in both trials
Tom Foley, Ramsey County District Attorney in 1980
Tom Berg, Former U. S. Attorney who prosecuted the kidnap case
Anoka County Probation official who sat through the murder trial and told me he knew someday someone would write this story. "I've never watched an episode of 20/20 or 48 Hours Mystery that I haven't thought to myself, 'If you think that story is crazy, you haven't heard about Ming Shiue'."
Mary Stauffer or Beth Stauffer
When I first began writing this book, I wrote a letter to Mary Stauffer asking if she and/or her daughter Beth would care to be interviewed or comment on the book. I sent her another letter when I signed with Beaver's Pond to publish the book.
Neither Mary nor Beth has chosen to be interviewed or comment on the book and I respect their decision to maintain silence on this matter.
Sandra and David Wilkman
I have also written to Jason's parents, Sandra and David Wilkman who also have chosen not to comment.
Mother and Brothers of Ming Sen Shiue
Out of respect for Ming Shiue's family, I notified his mother Mei Shiue Dickerman and his brothers, Ron and Charles Shiue, of the writing of this story and invited them to contact me. They have chosen to remain silent on the matter.
Ming Sen Shiue
Because I was not a family member nor had I known Shiue prior to the commission of his crimes, federal regulations prevented me from visting him when he was in federal prison.
When Shiue was moved to the Anoka County Jail in November 2009, I wrote him requesting permission either to visit him there or to correspond with him about the book. Ming Shiue has not contacted me.